Sex-Lexicon A–Z

Anal sex is one of the oldest erotic practices and is experienced by many people as particularly intense – regardless of gender or orientation. What matters:

• Voluntariness
• plenty of lubricant
• start slowly
• respect boundaries
• communication throughout

For some it's a taboo, for others a source of great pleasure. What brings joy to both parties is allowed.

Aftercare means coming back to yourself after an exciting experience. It can include:

• Cuddling
• Calming
• Drinking
• Talking
• Closeness

Especially after dominant or emotional scenes, aftercare is important because the body releases many hormones. It creates trust and strengthens bonds – even in anonymous contexts via voice.

Affairs arise from curiosity, unmet needs, desire, tension, or variety. They can be purely physical or deeply emotional.

SOLO-O itself does not promote infidelity, but many people use anonymous voice to live out fantasies without real contact or exchange of data.

BDSM is a broad spectrum of bondage, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism. It is NOT about violence, but about roles, trust, and psychological arousal. Essential are:

• Consent ("safe, sane, consensual")
• prior agreement
• safe word
• responsibility for each other

Many people experience BDSM via voice as particularly intense — fantasy without touch.

Bondage is one of the most popular BDSM elements. It can be: light restraint, artistic ropes, handcuffs, or cloths. Important are safety, agreement, and trust.

The psychological effect is often stronger than the physical.

Many experience the blowjob as particularly intimate because closeness, warmth, breathing, and devotion come together. Pace, depth, saliva, and pauses play a role.

During anonymous phone sex, the experience can be intensified through breath, words, and fantasy.

For many women, cunnilingus is one of the most intense forms of pleasure. Why?

• direct clitoral stimulation
• tongue + breath
• rhythm
• closeness
• attention

It is intimate, emotional, and extremely diverse.

This fantasy is strongly psychologically charged: jealousy, competition, devotion, loss of control – all play a role. It must always happen consensually.

Many live out this fantasy anonymously via voice because it's safer and more controllable.

Consent is the most important principle of all healthy sexuality. It means:

• I agree voluntarily
• I can say "No" at any time
• I am informed
• I feel safe

Without consent, there is no real erotics – only boundary violation. SOLO-O is based entirely on mutual voluntariness.

Dirty talk works through words, pauses, breath, and images in the head. Voice works stronger than images – that's why dirty talk on SOLO-O is particularly intense.

You don't narrate porn – you describe feelings and scenes.

Dominance is not aggression, but leadership, decision-making power, voice, clarity, and responsibility. A Dom or Domina leads, a Sub follows voluntarily.

Voice is ideal for this — it works directly, intensely, clearly.

It is a technique where the penis penetrates deep into the mouth or throat. For many, it's a power or devotion game.

It requires trust, relaxation, and a voluntary dynamic.

The intensity can vary, from short pulses to longer waves.

Ejaculation can also be mentally influenced – through fantasy, voice, expectation, and arousal.

Not to be confused with illegal behavior! Consensual exhibitionism means:

• voluntary
• private
• with consent
• mutual trust

Many live out this fantasy through voice or words – anonymous and safe.

It combines touch, breath, pressure points, and fantasy. It is not a mechanical act, but a play of closeness, warmth, and intimacy.

Also very intense when described verbally.

Fetishes are widespread and completely normal. Common fetishes:

• Feet
• High Heels
• Voices
• Hands
• Scents
• Textiles

Fetishes say nothing "weird" about people – they belong to the diversity of sexuality.

This practice is advanced and requires a lot of lubricant, clear communication, absolute voluntariness, and knowledge of anatomy. It is NOT for beginners.

But very common as a fantasy.

Foot fetishism is one of the most common fetishes worldwide. People love smell, feel, appearance, dominance, and touch ideas.

Some use voice to live out their foot fantasies anonymously.

Consensual gangbangs are fantasies where intensity, overwhelm, attention, taboo breaking, and power play play a role. Clear agreements are needed: define boundaries, establish roles, agree on protection, plan aftercare.

As a fantasy, the topic is widespread because it's psychologically charged: attention, devotion, desire, and loss of control. Voice allows living out this fantasy anonymously – without real risks.

The term describes every form of sexual interaction. Modern sexology sees it not only physically, but also emotionally and mentally. Intercourse can be intimate, passionate, playful, experimental – or an expression of connection and closeness.

At SOLO-O, it is relived purely through words & voice, imaginatively, without physical contact.

The G-spot is not a "magic switch", but a region with high sensitivity. Stimulation can be: wavelike, deep, pressure-filled, rhythmic.

Many women experience a different form of arousal there than through the clitoris. Important: Every woman is different – and each experiences this zone individually.

It can be slow, rhythmic, playful, or firm. Much more important than technique are rhythm, pressure, speed, and sensuality.

During phone sex, the handjob is often described verbally, accompanied by breath or fantasy, which intensifies the experience.

Hentai is a global phenomenon and includes role-playing, fantasy worlds, extreme scenes, and comic aesthetics.

Many people like hentai because of the creative freedom and the possibility to experience fantasies that often wouldn't be possible in reality.

Highly sensitive people react strongly to voice, words, energy, and atmosphere.

That's why SOLO-O is particularly suitable for highly sensitive or highly sensual people, because voice works pure and unfiltered.

Intimacy arises through trust, attention, honesty, devotion, and fantasy.

Voice creates intimacy particularly strongly because it works emotionally, directly, and deeply. Many experience voice as more intense than visual stimuli.

"Intercourse" describes all sexual acts where bodies come into contact.

The term is frequently used in English erotica, pop culture, and pornography and is internationally understood.

It works through tension, expectation, slow escalation, withholding, and psychological control.

The game lives on words, voice, and timing – perfect for anonymous phone erotics. The appeal lies not in orgasm, but in the charged tension.

JOI combines dominance, instruction, fantasy, voice, and control. Many experience JOI as particularly intense because voice sets clear impulses and guides fantasy.

It is one of the most common anonymous fantasies.

"Jizz" comes from English-speaking pop culture. It refers to the semen released during male orgasm.

The term is used primarily in young, pornographic online communities.

The term is strongly culturally influenced. Today, virginity is seen less as a "status" but as a personal journey of experience.

Important: There is no physical proof of virginity.

Kinky encompasses a wide range: light bondage games, dominant roles, fantasies, unusual stimuli.

It doesn't mean "extreme", but curious and playful.

The Kamasutra contains not only positions but also communication, relationship care, seduction, and sensuality.

It is a cultural work that describes desire, pleasure, and harmony.

It includes soft lips, breath, tongue play, rhythm, and tension.

Kisses can determine the intensity of an entire experience — they are often the strongest desire enhancer.

Libido is dynamic and influenced by hormones, stress, sleep, fantasy, and partnership.

Voice, intimacy, and fantasy can directly activate libido.

It only works with consent and trust. For many, it's a form of intense sensation: tingling, pressure, slapping, scratching, pulling.

Safety, communication, and boundaries are mandatory.

Lingerie plays with fabrics, light, movement, and silhouettes.

For some, lingerie is a fetish, for others an expression of self-confidence.

Masturbation is normal, healthy, stress-reducing, pleasurable, and creative.

Voice can intensify masturbation – many people experience anonymous audio cinema more strongly than visual stimuli.

The term comes from American youth cultures and describes mature erotics.

MILFs are associated with experience, self-confidence, and intensity.

In the morning, testosterone levels are higher, stress is lower, and closeness is more natural.

Many experience morning sex as particularly intimate and carefree.

Nipples are very sensitive, erogenous zones. Nipple play can be: light stroking, gentle nibbling, pinching, pressure, cold/warm stimuli. Many people experience intense waves of pleasure.

Nipple stimulation can also work strongly during phone sex through description, breath, and fantasy.

"Nymphomania" was a sexist label term from past centuries. Modern sexology sees desire as healthy, individual, and free from moral judgments.

The term is no longer used medically today.

Watersports is a fetish and always based on consent and trust. Many experience it as taboo breaking, dominance play, or intimacy form. Important: hygiene, voluntariness, clear boundaries.

Without consent, it is absolutely taboo.

Orgasm is individual: short or long, quiet or loud, explosive or swelling. Psychologically, it arises not only through touch but also through fantasy and voice.

Many people experience anonymous audio experience (SOLO-O) as particularly orgasmic because fantasy is active.

Oral sex is a mixture of closeness, breath, control, devotion, and sensitivity. Every person experiences oral sex differently.

During phone sex, scenes are often described – which is more intense for many than visual stimuli.

The Omegaverse plays with themes like dominance, hierarchy, animal instincts, and strong bonds. It is pure fantasy that many use to live out role extremes.

Voice is ideal for representing such scenes anonymously.

Porn is everywhere – but not always fulfilling. Many people seek alternatives that are more real, emotional, intimate, and imaginative.

SOLO-O offers a form of "audio intimacy" that creates head cinema instead of images.

Polyamorous people don't love "more", but differently: focus on transparency, communication, boundaries, and honesty.

Many polyamorous people use voice as an experience field because they can experiment free from relationship concepts.

Pegging combines curiosity, power play, devotion, and prostate stimulation. Many men experience pegging as surprisingly pleasurable.

Important: voluntariness, lubricant, slowness.

Quickies live on energy, spontaneity, desire, and little preparation.

Anonymous via voice, the quickie is particularly popular because it can be experienced immediately without effort.

Popular roles: strangers in a hotel, boss/employee, teacher/student, dominant/submissive, neighbors/strangers.

Voice makes roles particularly vivid — anonymous and without real risks.

Rough sex means power, intensity, dominance, and direct energy. But: Without mutual consent, it's taboo. Communicate clearly, safe word, know boundaries.

Classic hotlines work with paid operators, high per-minute prices, and fixed roles. SOLO-O, on the other hand: real people, anonymously connected, no professionals, no per-minute costs, spontaneous authenticity.

The big difference: The voice of a real person works deeper than staged roles.

Here, not hardness but elegance is in the foreground: soft instructions, calm voice, clear leadership, psychological closeness.

Ideal for anonymous voice experiences.

Solo-sex is healthy, normal, relieving, creative, and completely individual. Many experience solo-sex more intensely when voice and fantasy come together. This is exactly where SOLO-O comes in: anonymous voice → exceptionally intense head cinema.

The name "SOLO-O" consciously plays with this concept: enjoying solo – but not alone, but connected with an anonymous voice that enhances desire, closeness, and fantasy.

Submission is not "subordination", but trust, letting go, fantasy, and emotional intensity.

Many experience submission via voice as much stronger because it only happens in the head.

Phone sex lives on fantasy, voice, breath, words, and images in the head. Many use phone sex as an alternative to porn or as a safe space for fantasy.

SOLO-O is a modern form of it – anonymous, immediate, without numbers, with real people.

The appeal arises from slow escalation, pauses, tension, expectation, and control.

Particularly intense via voice.

Consensual voyeurism is widespread: watching or describing works psychologically extremely arousing.

SOLO-O offers passive listening (Gold), but only if both conversation partners agree.

The French kiss is often the strongest trigger for closeness, desire, connection, and arousal. It is an erotic foreplay and often says more than words.